Ingrid Smith's Obituary
Ingrid Smith, 55, of Columbia, MO, passed away on Friday, June 28, 2024, at her home. Services will be held on Friday, July 19, 2024, at 12:00 PM at Knights of Columbus Hall in Columbia. Visitation will be held from 11:00 AM to 12:00 PM on Friday at the Knights of Columbus Hall. Services will be live streamed at 12:00 PM through the HT May & Son Funeral Home Facebook page and can be found at https://www.facebook.com/htmayfuneralhome.
Ingrid Danelle Smith, born on May 16, 1969, to Jerry Curtis Robinson and Shirly Ann Smith in the bustling city of Saint Louis MO at Saint Lukes Hospital, passed away peacefully at her home where she resided with her husband Charles Smith and grandson Keshawn Smith on June 28th 2024.
Ingrid was a 1987 graduate of Parkway Central where she took pride in being among the first group of students who broke down the color barriers as Saint Louis launched a new initiative to desegregate their public schools.
Ingrid’s strong-willed nature, love for people, admiration for nature’s beauty, strong work ethic and her uncanny ability to attract people of all walks of life stem from her grandfather Wilie Smith who played an intricate role during her formative years.
Ingrid eventually moved away to Columbia Missouri in 1994 where she spent the past 30 years enjoying being a wife, mother, and Nana to 23 grandchildren. Ingrid always wanted a big family and a big family she got. For Ingrid, family meant everything to her, it truly was about joy, laughter, hopes and dreams, the bonding moments, and unconditional love. For many years Ingrid enjoyed being a strong, independent single mother. She often would affectionately refer to her children as “Mommy’s Amazing Eight.”
As her children started getting older and attending public school Ingrid’s journey took a transformative turn when she was introduced by a dear friend, whom she lovingly referred to as her guardian angel, to the HeadStart program. It was there that Ingrid discovered her true passion. As an assistant teacher, she found a new purpose and outlet for her overflowing love and energy. She poured her heart into playing, teaching, and educating the children, bringing joy and inspiration to all those around her. Her love and commitment to her families excelled her to being a Family Service advocate a position she truly coveted as she was able to impact her families lives in an even more meaningful way.
Ingrid’s path intertwined with destiny when she crossed paths with her husband, Charles Smith, who was her lead teacher at the HeadStart program. Their relationship was a unique blend of love and banter, creating a special dynamic between them. Over time, what started as a ‘love-hate’ vibe blossomed into a deep friendship and love that knew no bounds. Charles was captivated by Ingrid’s spirit, and he eventually won her heart. Together, they embarked on a journey that spanned 24 years, raising a beautiful family of eight children. Charles embraced Ingrid’s children as his own, nurturing and guiding each one with unwavering love and support. Their family grew to include Mekaelia Smith (MIKKI), Jay Smith, Altamesse Smith (MEME), Anastasia Humphery, Theresa Johnson, Keith Johnson, Shanice Carter and Katalena Smith. Through the joys and challenges of life, Ingrid and Charles created a home filled with love, laughter and Cherished memories that will forever live on in the hearts of their family.
Throughout the tapestry of joy and love that defined Ingrids life, there were moments of profound sorrow and loss that tested her faith. At a young age, Ingrid experienced the heart-wrenching loss of her beloved grandparents, followed by the more recent passing of her baby brother. In 2018, the family was shattered by the devastating loss of her precious grandbaby, Ivory, a tragedy that left a lasting void in their hearts.
In the face of unimaginable grief, Ingrid and Charles opened their hearts to their daughters’ children, embracing them as their own and providing love and stability during a time of upheaval. The family found strength in Jehovah’s unswerving love and comfort found in the Bible. Combined with their faith, unity and love, their family navigated through the darkest of days. However, the challenges were not over, as in 2020, the family was struck by another devastating blow with the sudden loss of their daughter, MEME. The weight of that profound loss took a toll on Ingrid, culminating in a stroke that tested her resilience and spirit. In the mist of grieving the loss of her daughter she experienced yet another unimaginable loss. On October 14,2023 Ingrid received the devasting news of the passing of her beloved baby boy Keith Johnson. The pain of this loss struck her to the core, a deep and piercing ache that knew no boundaries.
Despite the immense pain and adversity, Ingrids unwavering love and strength shone through. She faced each trial with grace and courage, showing boundless love and determination in the face of overwhelming sorrow. Her compacity for love and resilience inspired all who knew her, leaving a lasting legacy of compassion and fortitude in the hearts of those she touched.
Ingrid’s unwavering devotion to Jehovah God was the cornerstone of her life, guiding her through the joy and trial she faced. From her earliest days to the moments of raising her eight beloved children on her own, Ingrid’s faith in Jehoavh never wavered. She found solace, strength and purpose in her relationship with God., delving deep into the Scriptures to understand his teachings and promises.
Her heart overflowed with compassion and love for others, a reflection of the divine light that shone brightly within her. Ingrid’s thirst for spiritual knowledge was insatiable, as she immersed herself in the study of Jehovah’s word with a passion and dedication that inspired all who knew her. Her radiant spirit and deep understanding of the scriptures marked her as a beacon of faith and hope wherever she went.
As a diligent student of Jehovah’s Witnesses, Ingrid eagerly anticipated the day she would dedicate her life through water baptism, a testament to her unwavering commitment to her faith. She faithfully attended all the meetings, weather in person or via Zoom, for the past few years, eager to deepen her understanding and share her newfound knowledge with her children, her loved ones and anyone who would listen.
Ingrid’s yearning for the resurrection, where she would be reunited with her cherished family members, fueled her hope and strengthen her resolve. Her faith in Jehovah’s promises sustained her through every trial, and her unwavering belief in the future restoration brought her comfort and peace. Ingrid’s legacy of faith, love and devotion to Jehovah God will forever be remembered by those whose lives she touched.
Beyond her unwavering faith and dedication, Ingrids life was adorned with moments of pure joy and exuberance. She danced through life with song in her heart, her melodious voice filling every corner with warmth and light. Weather in the aisles od a grocery store or under the open sky, Ingrids love for singing was infectious bringing smiles to those around her. Her rendition of theme songs from television shows was a delight to behold, showcasing her musical talent and joyous spirit.
Dancing was another one of Ingrid’s passions, a source of liberation and expression that brought happiness. When the music began to play, she couldn’t resist the urge to move and groove, whether it be in the comfort of her home or in the midst of a crowded street. Her infectious energy and love for dance illuminated every room she entered, inviting others to join in on the fun.
A passionate writer and dedicated journaler, Ingrid found solace and clarity in putting pen to paper., capturing her thoughts and emotions, in a tapestry of words. Journaling was not just a habit but a cherished outlet that allowed her to process life’s complexities and find peace within.
Ingrid sharp mind and love for challenges led her to indulge in brain-busting activities like crosswords puzzles, reveling in the thrill of unraveling each clue. However, it was her love of all things tech that truly set her aglow. Embracing her inner techie nerd; Ingrid immersed herself in the world of electronics, spending hours unraveling mysteries and mastering the intricacies of her devices with unwavering determination and curiosity.
Through her vibrant passions and unwavering zest for life, Ingrid’s light continues to shine bright in the hearts of those who were touched by her boundless spirit and infectious joy.
Ingrids zest for life extended to her love for shopping, earning her the affectionate title of the Amazon Queen. Her passion for discovering new treasures and indulging in the latest finds knew no bounds, as evidenced by her steady stream of packages that continued even after her passing. Ingrids keen eye for style and trendsetting fashion sense set her apart, turning heads and making a statement wherever she went.
As the Amazon Queen she navigated the vast virtual aisles with finesse, curating a collection of items that reflected her vibrant personality and unique taste. Her love for shopping was not just about acquiring goods but about the thrill of discovery and the joy of sharing her finds with those she loved.
Ingrids fashion sense reflected her inner radiance, a blend of confidence and creativity that made her a true standout in any room she entered. With each ensemble carefully curated and every accessory thoughtfully chosen, she exuded an effortless elegance that captivated all who had the pleasure of knowing her.
Her love for fashion was not just about looking good, but about expressing her inner beauty and individuality in a way that was uniquely her own. Ingrid’s brilliant spirit and impeccable style will forever be remembered as a testament to her vibrant personality and unwavering flair for life.
Through all the trials and tribulations that life presented her, Ingrid remained a beacon of love, kindness, and unwavering strength. Her memory will live on in the hearts of all who were touched by her gentle spirit and enduring love. Ingrid’s legacy is one of resilience, compassion, and the profound ability to persevere in the face of adversity.
As we bid farewell to Ingrid Smith, we hold her close in our hearts, cherishing the memories of a life well-lived that will forever shine brightly in our hearts.
Ingrid's sudden departure has left a void in our lives. To honor her memory, the family is planning a celebration of her life and is humbly asking for donations. Any amount you can contribute will be a heartfelt blessing to the family during this difficult time. Donations can be made at https://fundthefuneral.com/ingrid-smith
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